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For coming generations let’s talk

d8sFor coming generations let’s talk

It’s very human matter that will be discussed. It’s is very important, very vetal , very human . it’s the marital life of every one. When should it began and how ?
I’m talking about this topic to avoid making coming generations suffering. It’s the matter of love and marriage. We have to change radically all traditions, all ideas, all principles which are related to this issue. Yes its an issue which has its effect on life, on society, on production and even on history. Yes . We have to keep only the very important instructions of religion and clear out all the old hiritage that is related social and economical factors . In order to change and to consume time, we have to deny ourselves yes deny ourselves .
When ?
It’s a right of any person to began his marital life whenever he finds the right partner and feels it’s time for it without thinking of any other factors. Whenever two persons feel that they are in love,they should began their marital life, a legal marital life. And as we know in Islam love is a legal right of any human being just in condition of marriage.So,bcause it’s a very essencial need, it should be satisfied in the right way and right time. If it’s ignored it produces homo***ualities , psychological complexes and illnesses. If it’s postponed it will make the person anable to began his marital life and always feals to find the right partner.
How ?
Evidently this question HOW is diffecult and big one. But i have some useful and basic suggestions. As we know to fullfill this change we have to cooperate and to have patience and the courrage to deny ourselves as the following :
1- We have to avoid talking about love as a taboo in the environement of family. This will garantee a big deal of clarity and transparency in communication between the concerned person and responsibles. Which makes responsibles ables to provide help at the right time.
2- Parents should encourage their children to express their feelings clearly and in the right way. In addition to that they should show their readiness to help.
3- The concerned person should be sure that it’s a certain feeling and not temporary one.
4- Family should make it easy for young people to contact each other in successive and different occasions in right conditions. This will make it easy for any one to find and choose the right partner at the right time and in the right conditions.
For example two teenagers are in love and they are sure of their feelings. Their families have to help them to marry and continue their study and work for their future at the same time.
I’m sure that they will be successful couple at every life side. In this way we will have good and responsible persons, good families and good society.

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d8sFor coming generations let’s talk

let me say that I do appreciate your contribution which is of a crucial importance but I feel sorry to say it is full of mistakes and it will be nice of you to correct your topic and repost it

thanks for remarke but let me ask you about the side where does fall the mistakes is linguistique or intellectual
i ll be thankful if you answer my question

First. I'd like to thank you for the topic
I think that the mistakes which your contribution includes are related to ******** - grammar
Again, concerning the ideas , I totally appreciate all of them except one.
The only point I disagree with is allowing teenagers to live together as a couple.
Because, at this age, i think that the person can't be 100 persent sure about his/her feelings which may result in problems in future life .
A person should be mature enough in order to take responsible as well as raisonable decisions in his/her life......

sure parents should encourage their children to talk freely about their feelings yet they(parents) have to guide them as well so i think that teenagers in love can't get married untill they grow up and are completely responsible of themselves there's no way to support them to marry that's a matter which concerns them alone so let them grow up more may be they can change their opinion as feelings change according to age