d8sFor coming generations let’s talk
It’s very human matter that will be discussed. It’s is very important, very vetal , very human . it’s the marital life of every one. When should it began and how ?
I’m talking about this topic to avoid making coming generations suffering. It’s the matter of love and marriage. We have to change radically all traditions, all ideas, all principles which are related to this issue. Yes its an issue which has its effect on life, on society, on production and even on history. Yes . We have to keep only the very important instructions of religion and clear out all the old hiritage that is related social and economical factors . In order to change and to consume time, we have to deny ourselves yes deny ourselves .
When ?
It’s a right of any person to began his marital life whenever he finds the right partner and feels it’s time for it without thinking of any other factors. Whenever two persons feel that they are in love,they should began their marital life, a legal marital life. And as we know in Islam love is a legal right of any human being just in condition of marriage.So,bcause it’s a very essencial need, it should be satisfied in the right way and right time. If it’s ignored it produces homo***ualities , psychological complexes and illnesses. If it’s postponed it will make the person anable to began his marital life and always feals to find the right partner.
How ?
Evidently this question HOW is diffecult and big one. But i have some useful and basic suggestions. As we know to fullfill this change we have to cooperate and to have patience and the courrage to deny ourselves as the following :
1- We have to avoid talking about love as a taboo in the environement of family. This will garantee a big deal of clarity and transparency in communication between the concerned person and responsibles. Which makes responsibles ables to provide help at the right time.
2- Parents should encourage their children to express their feelings clearly and in the right way. In addition to that they should show their readiness to help.
3- The concerned person should be sure that it’s a certain feeling and not temporary one.
4- Family should make it easy for young people to contact each other in successive and different occasions in right conditions. This will make it easy for any one to find and choose the right partner at the right time and in the right conditions.
For example two teenagers are in love and they are sure of their feelings. Their families have to help them to marry and continue their study and work for their future at the same time.
I’m sure that they will be successful couple at every life side. In this way we will have good and responsible persons, good families and good society.
For coming generations let’s talk
